The holiday season is behind us, and as the glitter settles, I’m left reflecting on one chaotic moment that turned into a powerful life lesson. Picture this: we had the Christmas lights display of the century — twinkling, glowing, a beacon of holiday cheer. Then, suddenly, the weekend before Christmas, darkness. The breaker flipped, which of course was the circuit that had the wifi and the biggest tv in the house. No problem, right? 😳 I flipped it back on and carried on. But it kept happening. Again. And again.
Finally, after one too many interruptions, I stopped treating the symptom and dug into the root cause. The culprit? A programmable timer had shorted out and — wait for it — almost caught fire! 🫠 We were bandaid-fixing a literal fire hazard! This got me thinking: how often do we do this in life? Slap on a quick fix instead of addressing the deeper issue?
Stop Bandaid Fixing Your Life: Why It's Not Enough Anymore
The problem with bandaid solutions is that they’re temporary. They mask the symptom without solving the problem, leaving us stuck in a cycle of frustration. Think about it: how often do you find yourself flipping the proverbial breaker in your life? Whether it’s overcommitting, running on empty, or ignoring the little warning signs your mind and body are giving you, these quick fixes only delay the inevitable.
I’ve been there. Burnout, stress, feeling stuck—you name it. It wasn’t until I stopped, took a breath, and really looked around that I began to see the patterns and address the root causes. That’s when real change happens.
Lessons for the New Year
As we step into a fresh year, let’s stop flipping breakers and start finding solutions. Here’s how you can approach your goals and challenges differently:
Recognize the Symptoms: Whether it’s exhaustion, frustration, or things not working the way they should, take note. Symptoms are your body and life sending you a message.
Pause to Reflect: Instead of rushing to fix it, take a moment to assess. What’s really going on? What patterns are you repeating?
Address the Root Cause: Real change happens when we go deeper. What’s the underlying issue, and how can you tackle it head-on?
Invest in Yourself: Whether it’s tools, resources, or support, make yourself and your growth a priority.
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About the Author
Hi, I’m Phallyn—a corporate veteran turned entrepreneur, certified Feng Shui & hypnotherapy expert, and working mom with over a decade of experience navigating high-pressure environments. After experiencing burnout and anxiety firsthand, I transformed my life using holistic practices and a commitment to intentional living. Now, I’m passionate about helping women, especially working moms in male-dominated industries, overcome stress and create balanced, fulfilling lives. Through humor, honesty, and actionable insights, I aim to empower others to stop surviving and start thriving.
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